Blue Blk
I am black, husband is white. I am quite dark, but he wants me to dye my blk hair blond and wear blue contacts
He is becoming very controlling, he wants me to eat what he calls "white" foods and wear "white" clothing styles- it's becoming crazy living with him. I am not allowed black friends and have not seen my family for months. He is very displeased with our twins' light brown skin and will not allow them outside as they will tan darker. He has taken away my "too ethnic" music and movie collection. All this has been happening increasingly over about 18 months. Should I just leave or try to work it out? I love my culture and ethnicity and don't want to leave it behind. We have been married 2 years but dated for 2 years before we married, and he was perfectly NORMAL before we wed. He is NOT physically abusive. Do you think he's losing it?
That is truly bizarre behaviour.
It sounds like your husband has very little respect for you, your family, friends or heritage.
I think he is losing it big time, if he wasn't like this before, and now he suddenly is, I would seriously question his mental state - especially re your twins!
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